Something tells me that when the pain gets too tough,
There is something you may have to give up.
Something tells me when it gets too much to bare,
Look around and see who will be there.
Something tells me that when you're being dragged down,
You may have to be quiet and not make a sound.
Something tells me when your emotions are crazy,
Good things are on the horizon that you may not see.
Something tells me that when a situation leaves you unsure,
You may have to leave it alone for strain not to endure.
Something tells me that confusion is apart of life,
And when things look bleek to continue to fight.
Something tells me things happen for a reason,
It may be the time, or it may be the season.
Something tells me that this isn't what I planned,
But it's not up to me so i'll put it in God's hands.
Something tells me that I may still be doing too much,
While dragging down others and becoming a crutch.
Something tells me that all the love inside of me yerns,
There are still so many things I must have to learn.
Something tells me that when people read this they won't know what to think,
Just remember that the chains in my armour are not all linked.
Something tells me though that it will all work out just fine,
It would not have come this far to dim my shine.
It's the holiday season and maybe that's the blue,
For up until this point it had been shiny as new.
I hope it for my mom also and my family,
Without them there would be no loving me.
For 2010 is sure to be a better year,
At least I hope, I sure do need more cheers.
Monday, December 7, 2009
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Daily Word
This was taken from Our Daily Bread for today's word:
"There are times when difficult circumstances or personal loss can cause us to feel that Christ has been stolen from our Christmas. How can we find Jesus when life seems to be working against us?"
Isn't that enough said. If I didn't get ANY gifts, presents, or any monetary gain from this Christmas, all I ask is that Jesus spread His love upon me (and my people), and that I am able to gain back some serenity and prosperity in my life. All I want for Christmas this year is Christ Jesus.
"There are times when difficult circumstances or personal loss can cause us to feel that Christ has been stolen from our Christmas. How can we find Jesus when life seems to be working against us?"
Isn't that enough said. If I didn't get ANY gifts, presents, or any monetary gain from this Christmas, all I ask is that Jesus spread His love upon me (and my people), and that I am able to gain back some serenity and prosperity in my life. All I want for Christmas this year is Christ Jesus.
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Are you ready?
Well well well. It looks as if we will certainly have a Pacquiao/Mayweather showdown as expected. It is apparent that Mayweather has agreed to the deal and that several venues are already expressing interest, including the billion dollar stadium of the Dallas Cowboys, headed by Jerry Jones. They say the date is set for March 3rd or May 1st. I would figure May would be better for Pacquiao but being the tornado that he is, who is to say. This will be one for the ages, one that I will HAVE to see live. One that may help bring boxing back to the fore front, at least for the time being. I can't wait for this one.
Also, Bernard Hopkins was set to fight Roy Jones, Jr. in March also (don't ask me why). Now, Roy Jones went overseas and got destroyed in the 1st round by a European (or something). Now, his chances with Hopkins have died and Hopkins actually fights tonight. Very weird. For one, why would Hopkins and Jones wait until NOW to do a rematch. Fans have been waiting for that for over a decade, but not NOW. Not with a diminished has-been like Roy Jones and Hopkins whose fights can bore you to tears (not including his last destruction of Kelly Pavlik, which was a masterpiece if I do say so myself). In any case, there is no interest there and apparently they were set to fight on PPV, which would have been self-promoted because I don't think HBO or Showtime was going to pick up that fight. Who would pay for it anyway.
And, Allen Iverson is set to join his former and 1st love in the Philadelphia 76ers. What?? I mean, I understand the Sixers are in a new state of mind since they let Iverson go initially. But to come back to it after all that says a lot. They haven't lived up to whatever plans they had 3 or 4 years ago and it seems that Iverson's services are needed in the city of brotherly love. It would only be a one year contract but I guess they could at least use him for that time. After that we will see what other teams interests MIGHT be and if he would ever concede to playing a role for a team that may need him in more of a limited duty than he's used to. I have my own reservations on Allen Iverson and have certainly been disappointed by his recent antics and comments. A player at the stage he is in now should be willing to accept a role at least to try and win a championship if nothing else. It may be hard for him knowing that he is still probably better than a nice percentage of guards in the league, but IS HE STILL. We may need to find out if he is truly diminished and if his health can hold him up for a full season anymore. No question about his talent, his heart, his courage, and all the necessities for him to be considered one of the greatest guards of all-time (i'll reserve comment on that one). But, there have been so many players, in so many different arenas, who have accepted and sacrificed for the sake of winning a ring. If this is Allen Iverson's last stand, he needs to grow up as a player and see everything in its proper perspective. Even if Iverson isn't fully diminished, I think it has been proven that no team will win with him as the focal point. Not the Iverson that wants to win scoring titles every year, doesn't trust his teammates, won't pass the ball in a big spot, and has to hoist up 30 shots every game. That Iverson will not LEAD a team to a title. Not anymore.
Also, Bernard Hopkins was set to fight Roy Jones, Jr. in March also (don't ask me why). Now, Roy Jones went overseas and got destroyed in the 1st round by a European (or something). Now, his chances with Hopkins have died and Hopkins actually fights tonight. Very weird. For one, why would Hopkins and Jones wait until NOW to do a rematch. Fans have been waiting for that for over a decade, but not NOW. Not with a diminished has-been like Roy Jones and Hopkins whose fights can bore you to tears (not including his last destruction of Kelly Pavlik, which was a masterpiece if I do say so myself). In any case, there is no interest there and apparently they were set to fight on PPV, which would have been self-promoted because I don't think HBO or Showtime was going to pick up that fight. Who would pay for it anyway.
And, Allen Iverson is set to join his former and 1st love in the Philadelphia 76ers. What?? I mean, I understand the Sixers are in a new state of mind since they let Iverson go initially. But to come back to it after all that says a lot. They haven't lived up to whatever plans they had 3 or 4 years ago and it seems that Iverson's services are needed in the city of brotherly love. It would only be a one year contract but I guess they could at least use him for that time. After that we will see what other teams interests MIGHT be and if he would ever concede to playing a role for a team that may need him in more of a limited duty than he's used to. I have my own reservations on Allen Iverson and have certainly been disappointed by his recent antics and comments. A player at the stage he is in now should be willing to accept a role at least to try and win a championship if nothing else. It may be hard for him knowing that he is still probably better than a nice percentage of guards in the league, but IS HE STILL. We may need to find out if he is truly diminished and if his health can hold him up for a full season anymore. No question about his talent, his heart, his courage, and all the necessities for him to be considered one of the greatest guards of all-time (i'll reserve comment on that one). But, there have been so many players, in so many different arenas, who have accepted and sacrificed for the sake of winning a ring. If this is Allen Iverson's last stand, he needs to grow up as a player and see everything in its proper perspective. Even if Iverson isn't fully diminished, I think it has been proven that no team will win with him as the focal point. Not the Iverson that wants to win scoring titles every year, doesn't trust his teammates, won't pass the ball in a big spot, and has to hoist up 30 shots every game. That Iverson will not LEAD a team to a title. Not anymore.
Monday, November 30, 2009
Sweet November!
As November closes, we put behind our month. Ours meaning me, my sister, and my mom. We all see our ages increase during the month of November. We were able to celebrate another of God's blessings in more time on this earth. As corny as that might sound. LOL.
We had a blast too. What can you say. The Yankees are world champs, Thanksgiving was awesome, I got banana pudding for my birthday, and my sister is still a dork! What else can you ask for. I only do hope that my mother could enjoy another year just as much as her children did. She is always looking out for us and making sure we have everything she can give us, still. It's not just cliche that children are children no matter how old we get. And when we're facing obstacles, she turns up the volume just a little bit. But enough for us to feel her love. The same love that was passed down to her by her mother. So thanks mom, for yet another Sweet November!!
See yall next time on WKMC Radio!! (LOL, yall know I'm silly)
We had a blast too. What can you say. The Yankees are world champs, Thanksgiving was awesome, I got banana pudding for my birthday, and my sister is still a dork! What else can you ask for. I only do hope that my mother could enjoy another year just as much as her children did. She is always looking out for us and making sure we have everything she can give us, still. It's not just cliche that children are children no matter how old we get. And when we're facing obstacles, she turns up the volume just a little bit. But enough for us to feel her love. The same love that was passed down to her by her mother. So thanks mom, for yet another Sweet November!!
See yall next time on WKMC Radio!! (LOL, yall know I'm silly)
Thanksgiving 2009!
I always have so much to be thankful for, and as cliche as that may sound it is so true. I heard somebody say on the radio that everyday is Thanksgiving, so she is thankful everyday. I do echo those sentiments. Because, although Thanksgiving comes around once a year, we shouldn't reserve exclusive gratitude to just that day alone. God is here everyday of our lives, through the good and the bad.
I have my family, my sister and my mother, through rough times, trials & tribulations. What I would have done without them is beyond me. But my mom continues to take care of me the same as she did when we were little. My sister has grown to be a beautiful woman, who has matured and learned what a selfless, caring person can display when they are able to face their fears and stampede right through them. With God's grace, he can pull us all through those kinds of progressions. My cousin/godsister/(i'll reserve any further comments) Cyria is a fun-loving sweetheart and we did have so much fun with her. I wish the girl would show herself more because she is truly a joy to be around. Cy, you are loved and I do wish I can get to know the woman better. My aunt, who has been through so, so much these past 2 years. When faced with obstacles, the family has pulled together and seen her through. She is a testament of a true warrior and giving up is not an option in our family. So, she is being seen through and climbing the mountains and God has certainly been good to her. My uncle, who does NOT get enough credit in the family but is the TRUE EXAMPLE of what a husband should be. They have stood the test of time in their marriage and have been role models for me for what I would like to become in my family. I do not care about when people are not understood, when they are doing the right things credit is due. And I certainly do appreciate them giving me something to look forward to and to strive towards. I love my Teaneck family, including my cousins Khadijah and Gigi, who anybody would be proud of knowing their story and their successes.
To all of my people, from my dad, who is my best friend, to Max, Resheemah, Hass, Michelle, and everybody who I have ever came across and love, and to those who are missing this year, much Thanksgiving to all of you. I have a lot of love in my heart, which some people may not realize, and you are all part of it.
Come, share my story!!
I have my family, my sister and my mother, through rough times, trials & tribulations. What I would have done without them is beyond me. But my mom continues to take care of me the same as she did when we were little. My sister has grown to be a beautiful woman, who has matured and learned what a selfless, caring person can display when they are able to face their fears and stampede right through them. With God's grace, he can pull us all through those kinds of progressions. My cousin/godsister/(i'll reserve any further comments) Cyria is a fun-loving sweetheart and we did have so much fun with her. I wish the girl would show herself more because she is truly a joy to be around. Cy, you are loved and I do wish I can get to know the woman better. My aunt, who has been through so, so much these past 2 years. When faced with obstacles, the family has pulled together and seen her through. She is a testament of a true warrior and giving up is not an option in our family. So, she is being seen through and climbing the mountains and God has certainly been good to her. My uncle, who does NOT get enough credit in the family but is the TRUE EXAMPLE of what a husband should be. They have stood the test of time in their marriage and have been role models for me for what I would like to become in my family. I do not care about when people are not understood, when they are doing the right things credit is due. And I certainly do appreciate them giving me something to look forward to and to strive towards. I love my Teaneck family, including my cousins Khadijah and Gigi, who anybody would be proud of knowing their story and their successes.
To all of my people, from my dad, who is my best friend, to Max, Resheemah, Hass, Michelle, and everybody who I have ever came across and love, and to those who are missing this year, much Thanksgiving to all of you. I have a lot of love in my heart, which some people may not realize, and you are all part of it.
Come, share my story!!
Sunday, November 22, 2009
On my birthday!
On my birthday I was spontaneous which is a rarity for me. I drove 200+ miles, and spend time with a friend. No worries, no cares, just living free. And using the breath that God gave me. I appreciated that so much.
On my birthday I could have gotten lost. But I did not panic or get flustered. I turned right around and got on my way.
On my birthday I rested. I had peace and did nothing I was obligated to.
On my birthday my family made me feel special. My cousin never forgets. My father is my best friend. My sister is a special kind. Mom mom still babies me. Even with the turn of the decade that will NOT change, EVER!!
On my birthday I got a new 'toy' (it's an MP3 player, don't think anything fresh). I am a gadget freak so it was like a mini-Christmas for me.
On my birthday an ingredient was missing. One that I had become accustomed to for a while now. But God moves things around to accommodate His order. I have no control, and do not want it anymore.
When the clock struck 12, I cried. To culminate the trying year it's been. To flow the tears for what God has been. And to say thank you to all those who are in my corner. From November 21, 1979, when my dear mother sacrificed all that she had for me (and later for my sister). For all that everybody that has passed through my life has been. For all the friends and family i've lost along the way. And for the people who are not far and always in my heart. I love you all.
To November 21st........
On my birthday I could have gotten lost. But I did not panic or get flustered. I turned right around and got on my way.
On my birthday I rested. I had peace and did nothing I was obligated to.
On my birthday my family made me feel special. My cousin never forgets. My father is my best friend. My sister is a special kind. Mom mom still babies me. Even with the turn of the decade that will NOT change, EVER!!
On my birthday I got a new 'toy' (it's an MP3 player, don't think anything fresh). I am a gadget freak so it was like a mini-Christmas for me.
On my birthday an ingredient was missing. One that I had become accustomed to for a while now. But God moves things around to accommodate His order. I have no control, and do not want it anymore.
When the clock struck 12, I cried. To culminate the trying year it's been. To flow the tears for what God has been. And to say thank you to all those who are in my corner. From November 21, 1979, when my dear mother sacrificed all that she had for me (and later for my sister). For all that everybody that has passed through my life has been. For all the friends and family i've lost along the way. And for the people who are not far and always in my heart. I love you all.
To November 21st........
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Early NBA analysis
I was going over the NBA standings and I would say that the east and west are pretty equal right now. With the depreciation of New Orleans, San Antonio's old and banged up, Utah is underachieving (compared to what they've been the last few years), and outside of the Lakers, the field is wide open. Denver will probably finish 2nd again because those guys have that talent and Melo's on a mission this year. Phoenix will offense their way to the playoffs 1st and MAYBE 2nd round, and Dallas will be the normal regular season team they've always been. But the top teams out east can beat those guys out west (Boston, Cleveland, Orlando, and don't underestimate Atlanta).
Speaking of New Orleans, I think the firing of Byron Scott is a complete travesty. He's gotten the shaft for the 2nd time in his career unjustly. The first time was the year after he took the Nets to the NBA Finals twice. Now, after turning around a New Orleans franchise that was in the sewer before he arrived, he gets fired for New Orleans lack of keeping key players and players underperforming, along with injuries. Is it Byron Scott. I say no, again!! And hopefully he will land somewhere sometime soon because he has proven to be a formidable coach and is well-deservant of any top knotch opportunity that presents itself.
Will the Nets win a game this season?? Ha ha. They better try to get this next one against the Knicks. They go on a west coast trip that includes the likes of Denver, Portland and the Lakers. The only game that MAY BE winnable is sandwiches in between in Sacramento. What a birthday present (November 21st). The Nets and Knicks square off against each other in the lame "let's see who can finish last" 82-game tournament. Good luck!!
2 MORE DAYS!!
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Happy Birthday Belinda
November 4th has become a special day. Despite what God bought to our family in 1982, the last couple of years has bought us our first black president and the New York Yankees 27th world championship, respectively. But outside of all that, this year's November 4th is going to become a special day for many reasons. And my sister's birthday is certainly going to remain the most important. No matter what recent times have bought us. My sister is doing wonderful things in her life. She has always been a true example of doing the right thing and being strong enough to not be influrnced by all the negative things we may have been around over the years. She is proud of her Yankees, as so am I, and we are proud of her. It's funny how fast things in life change. I'll just continue to ride this out and see where He is bringing me. It's certainly not easy, but with His grace it's always possible. Much love! -- 11/4/09
Happy Birthday little sis!!
LETS GO YANKEES!! Beautiful job for #27. We ain't done yet.
Happy Birthday little sis!!
LETS GO YANKEES!! Beautiful job for #27. We ain't done yet.
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Thriller Night
It's close to midnight, and something evil's lurking in the dark. I love the moonlight, and see a sight that almost stops you hard. You try to scream, but terror takes the sound before you make it. You start to freeze, as horror looks you right between the eyes, you're paralyzed, cuz this is......
Me, my sister, and 2 of her friends are going to see "This Is It" on Halloween night tonight. I'm sure it will be a bit of a melancholy mood but we will rejoice in his legend. We all miss Michael.
Happy Halloween! Be safe.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Let's Go Yankees!!
*clap clap clap clap clap* Aw yeah, the World Series is back in the Bronx. Not that it's been gone all that long, but you know New York has become spoiled. Which is the reason why nothing short of a championship will suffice this stacked deck the Yankees organization has created. Since the late 90's, the Yankees have been able to spend the bank on big time players. What has created is nothing short of a championship is tolerated by the Yankees brass. Making it back to the world series is great, but if they happen to fail against the certainly worthy Philadelphia Phillies, it will be less than satisfying.
With our big additions and all the scrutiny they have faced over the years, guys like A-rod, Sabathia, Burnett, and Texeira will certainly have the hugest impact on this series. The ones who have been here, Derek Jeter, Posada, Mariano, Pettite will be who they've always been. I don't expect anything less from those guys on the big stage. I just hope the new comers early jitters leaves them in a timely manner and the Yankees get down to business. If I had a prediction, I would like to say Yankees in 4 (LOL, far fetched), but, I will pick the Yankees in 7 games. 7 because the Phillies have a touch line-up and a solid pitching staff. They would seem to match up well against us and, not to mention, these guys are the defending world champions. With that being said......LET'S GO YANKEES!!! See yall in the Bronx baby!!
NBA opens!!
I am a New York guy so I will start with the home teams. As I look at the Knicks roster, I have changed my mind and conceded to the fact that they probably will NOT make the playoffs this season. I remember thinking after last year ended that they would. I felt they had pieces and enough scoring on their roster to win enough games to get into the playoffs in the eastern conference. But I'm not sure now. That offense will score points on some nights, but they won't play well enough to win enough games to get in. Those nights when they do score over 100 points, the good teams will actually outscore them anyway because they play suspect on the other end. And there are some teams in the east who have also gotten a little better too. If they were to win 30-35 games I wouldn't be surprised, although, 35 games could be enough with the records that eastern conference teams have produced the last couple of seasons. Also, I made a point to one of my co-workers and heard a radio host mention it yesterday, with all the roster moves the Knicks have made the last couple of seasons, they will need to pick up TWO of the free agents in next year's pool, not just one. One won't be enough with this depleted roster (which may only become more depleted if they don't resign certain guys who are in contract years). So two would suffice, and I feel at this point they would HAVE TO GET TWO.
The Nets will not do anything at all this year. Their run is certainly over and right now it's time to rebuild. They have also seemed to concede to trying to pick up 1 or maybe 2 of the free agents in next year's pool. The Nets will be even more depressing to watch than the Knicks this year, which is unfortunate because they have certainly been the team to give the New York area something to cheer about the past 8 years when the Knicks weren't there to do it.
As for the rest of the league, I am seeing the Celtics and Lakers on a collision course to meet in the NBA finals once again. With the Celtics adding Rasheed Wallace to their already deep team, and the Lakers adding Ron Artest to their already deep team, I don't feel anybody in their respective conferences will be able to stop them from getting to the championship round. I am looking forward to Shaq with the Cavs. He has always been one of my favorites on and off the court. I feel the Cavs may finish 2nd in the east, but the Orlando Magic will have something to say about that. With their addition of New York's beloved Vince Carter (whom I already miss seeing in a Nets uniform), they should also be back to being one of the power houses in the eastern conference. Gilbert Arenas returning to Washington should get the Wizards back to being one of the top 8 teams in the east. The Atlanta Hawks have stayed afloat so they should still be in the playoff hunt (not any better though, but not any worse).
The western conference features the always contending San Antonio Spurs, with another New York beloved in Richard Jefferson joining that already established championship organization. With Jefferson, they are adding 17 ppg to their lineup and also a defensive presence, to add to their already defensive savy club. I feel the Spurs will be right behind the Lakers, followed by the Denver Nuggers. If Denver can build on anything they did last year, there is no reason they shouldn't be right back to being one of the top teams in the west. They we should be followed by the Hornets and (maybe) the Blazers. From there, I feel the rest of the spots are up for grabs. The west is always extremely tough though.
So, with that said, let's get it on!!
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Traffic Jam!
You're driving in your car. All roads are pretty clear. The trip is pretty smooth. Then, you hit a traffic jam. It's conjested all over. There's no way to get around it because you've exhausted your means of an alternate route. The traffic jam may be caused by an accident, rubber-necking, or even construction. You'll just have to stay and wait it out. Put up with the sudden slowness of the trip. Know that it will be over soon.
We face traffic jams in our lives as well. Just when we feel we have it all together, and everything is going smooth, we may hit some conjestion to slow us down. This may only be an indication for us to take our time. We tend to get aggrevated when we hit traffic jams, which may be the natural reaction. I know i've been guilty of going into a whole other mood and making people around me feel very uncomfortable just because the trip is now going to take a little longer than planned. But He may be just trying to get our attention for whatever reason. Maybe we're going too fast. Maybe there's something He wants us to see. Maybe there's something He wants us to hear. In any case, every traffic jam is not necessarily a negative thing. We just may need to stop, look, and listen to something. He has His own way of trying to get our attention sometimes. It may be a bit unusual but we have to take our time and when we do that, we'll receive Him.
The accidents may be our imperfections. Even if we unintentionally (accidentally) commit acts that are against Him, they still will get His attention. When we don't realize something that we've done, that's when we need His teaching the most. We may 'accidentally' not be following Him and what he tries to do for us. We may go the wrong way and He needs to steer us in the right direction. The construction may be for us to fix ourselves and to repair any 'pot holes' or 'rough patches' we have within ourselves. Anything to cause others or ourselves any hardships or pain. Anything that may cause us worry or stress. Anything that may hinder our progress or stunt our growth. The rubber-necking may be when we always look at others and their situations and do not look at ourselves enough. Too many times people try to judge or have strong opinions on others and what they do (I'm guilty), but we don't often look in the mirror at ourselves with evaluation and analysis. In doing that, we slow ourselves down, or block our own blessings. What are we doing medling in other people's business so much? That's not for us to do. Sure, we can be there for others with help and/or advice, support when it's called for, but we can't medle where we're not needed or wanted. Leave His work up to Him and worry about your own problems. We all have enough of them to deal with.
We'll face traffic jams all throughout our lives. The key is to try to avoid these same traffic jams repetitively. Find a way around them or try to minimize them as much as possible for next time. When going through the jams, it is not necessary to get uptight or have any sort of negative reactions that will rub those around us the wrong way. Because what we'll find is, when the traffic jam is over you'll feel better and when you do, you'll find that the people that you've impacted have now turned their backs on you in the process because of your attitude. So, take a deep breath and look to Him when going through your traffic jams. Stay even-keeled and do not get too high or too low. Let those around you be a light and be sure you don't dim that light out. Just wait it out and know that it will not last too long. That's trust. That's when life's lessons are being learned and you are taking the time to absorb all that He is trying to tell you. You'll find when that happens, the traffic jams that you'll face in the future will be fewer and further in between, and that you'll be able to handle them better.
We face traffic jams in our lives as well. Just when we feel we have it all together, and everything is going smooth, we may hit some conjestion to slow us down. This may only be an indication for us to take our time. We tend to get aggrevated when we hit traffic jams, which may be the natural reaction. I know i've been guilty of going into a whole other mood and making people around me feel very uncomfortable just because the trip is now going to take a little longer than planned. But He may be just trying to get our attention for whatever reason. Maybe we're going too fast. Maybe there's something He wants us to see. Maybe there's something He wants us to hear. In any case, every traffic jam is not necessarily a negative thing. We just may need to stop, look, and listen to something. He has His own way of trying to get our attention sometimes. It may be a bit unusual but we have to take our time and when we do that, we'll receive Him.
The accidents may be our imperfections. Even if we unintentionally (accidentally) commit acts that are against Him, they still will get His attention. When we don't realize something that we've done, that's when we need His teaching the most. We may 'accidentally' not be following Him and what he tries to do for us. We may go the wrong way and He needs to steer us in the right direction. The construction may be for us to fix ourselves and to repair any 'pot holes' or 'rough patches' we have within ourselves. Anything to cause others or ourselves any hardships or pain. Anything that may cause us worry or stress. Anything that may hinder our progress or stunt our growth. The rubber-necking may be when we always look at others and their situations and do not look at ourselves enough. Too many times people try to judge or have strong opinions on others and what they do (I'm guilty), but we don't often look in the mirror at ourselves with evaluation and analysis. In doing that, we slow ourselves down, or block our own blessings. What are we doing medling in other people's business so much? That's not for us to do. Sure, we can be there for others with help and/or advice, support when it's called for, but we can't medle where we're not needed or wanted. Leave His work up to Him and worry about your own problems. We all have enough of them to deal with.
We'll face traffic jams all throughout our lives. The key is to try to avoid these same traffic jams repetitively. Find a way around them or try to minimize them as much as possible for next time. When going through the jams, it is not necessary to get uptight or have any sort of negative reactions that will rub those around us the wrong way. Because what we'll find is, when the traffic jam is over you'll feel better and when you do, you'll find that the people that you've impacted have now turned their backs on you in the process because of your attitude. So, take a deep breath and look to Him when going through your traffic jams. Stay even-keeled and do not get too high or too low. Let those around you be a light and be sure you don't dim that light out. Just wait it out and know that it will not last too long. That's trust. That's when life's lessons are being learned and you are taking the time to absorb all that He is trying to tell you. You'll find when that happens, the traffic jams that you'll face in the future will be fewer and further in between, and that you'll be able to handle them better.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Captain Jesus!
Let us walk with Him and not be lead by ourselves. Too much we try to do things our way, on our own, and too many times we lead ourselves the wrong way. How do we know? Well, that feeling in your gut that you get when you're doing something wrong and when you're doing something right is probably Him assuring you of your decisions in life. But, we tend to have get the wrong feeling about something and go with it anyway. Then, we ask Him to bless what we've done. If we go against Him, we will not be blessed. We will simply be left on our own until we find our way in seeking Him again. And when we do, his mercy allows us to get back into Him. He does not get mad or upset, He simply waits for our return. He is merciful and fogiving in that way. We also must trust in Him with all that we have. He knows what He's doing. He has immeasurable experience in this life. He will always do the right things by us. We are His children. Just like with any good parent, He cares for His children a great deal. So He will not steer us wrong. I pray that He is with me in my times of trials and tribulations as well. And that all my sins and all my shortcomings are forgiven in His name. I need Him in the worst way, before I completely lose absolutely everything. But since He is here with me I am all good. He loves to be praised and talked about, and I will spread his word as much as I feel. He is the king, we are merely servants. Serving Him is our duty.
We do have our own contributions that we have to input into our lives. But, continue to follow captain Jesus, and he will lead us in the direction of where we need to go. I pray for all of those around me and even those who are against me. They need Him just as much as we do. Be Blessed!!
We do have our own contributions that we have to input into our lives. But, continue to follow captain Jesus, and he will lead us in the direction of where we need to go. I pray for all of those around me and even those who are against me. They need Him just as much as we do. Be Blessed!!
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Too much ax for Plax?
Is it just me, or do people feel bad for the punishment that Plaxico Burress will serve starting yesterday? I mean, I know he did something that was terribly wrong but this mistake does not fair up to other mistakes i've seen in society that hasn't endured the severity of Burress' 2 year sentence. ESPN's coverage last night made me even more heartwarmed to the situation. They spoke of Burress kissing his kids and his wife before the authorities took him away. And to Riker's Island nonetheless. Now, I'm really hoping they transfer him from there because as much as this was a horrible mistake by Plaxico, I do not feel he should be in Riker's Island. Part of this is because of his celebrity, yes. As much as people may feel that it's not a big deal, his celebrity would play a part in how he's treated. I'm sure the last thing New York would need on their hands is something to happen to him while he's in there. Plaxico Burress is no Foxy Brown or Remy Ma. Get him the heck out of there if he goes in at all. I don't feel he's in line with the criminals and thugs they hold there.
Of course, in the aspect of life I feel horrible for him. But he is an extremely talented football player as well. And it is also ashamed that this talent will be confined for 2 years. These next 2 years are critical for Plaxico because in football years, he's entering his 50's. By the time he gets out he'll be 34 years old and who knows what he'll have left in the tank by that time. The image of him catching the winning touchdown pass from Eli Manning may be the last great image we see of him on the football field. Outside of the great talent he is, he also seems like a good guy. Everytime i've heard him speak it's been eloquent and very mild-mannered. His teammates have also always seem to speak highly of him as well. As much as there was a punishment deserved in this crime, maybe what they gave him could be a bit extreme. Let's face it, he did accidentally use the gun on himself. While in the meantime, we have dirty cops using their multiple guns on other people and continuing to get away with murder. So, what's really worse.
Either way, I will pray for the brother and hope for his safe return back home to his family. We all will be judged, but the judges and the juries that we face in the long run do not occupy a courtroom.
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Give Sugar Shane a shot NOW!!
Now, as much as I feel Mayweather hasn't gotten ANY credit from some, and he does deserve it, he still has some more work to do to validate his career. Meaning, there are some fighters that are left in the ring that he has yet to face. Namely, the figher I mentioned in my last post, Sugar Shane Mosley. There are others, Miguel Cotto, (maybe) Margarito (although they won't match him up against Margarito most likely. I wouldn't see his team creating that fight). Here is the thing though. The reason I say let's not be hypocritical is this, we will all (fans, media, promoters, etc.) will engage in all the hype and hoopla over a fight between Mayweather and Pacquiao, as we did with Marquez. We will see all the footage, the 24/7 HBO series, and all the marketing for it. It will be the biggest payday for either fighter in their careers thus far. At the same time, we want to discredit Mayweather for not fighting these big fighters that are mentioned. The ones who would, most likely, give him the biggest tests of his career and possibly push him to the point that every great fighter needs to validate themselves in the sport. Ali had it with Frazier, Ray Leonard had it with Hearns, Holyfield and Bowe did it to each other, the list goes on. So I am certainly all for matching Mayweather up with a real tester. If this is going to be the case, though, we can't overwhelmingly back a fight with him and Pacquiao, then (hypothetically at this point) he handles Pacquiao, and we say that he was the bigger man fighting somebody not his size or caliber and that he needs to fight somebody up to his ability. Well, let's say it NOW, don't wait. Match this guy up with Sugar Shane right now, and don't get into all of what they are going to put into a fight with Pacquiao. As I said before, Shane does not have much time and he would need a fight with Mayweather right away, if it is going to happen at all. He can't afford to wait another year or two to get into the ring with this guy. Then, if it were to happen, and Mayweather were to beat Mosley, we would say Mosley was older and slower, not as fast, etc, etc. So let's do this RIGHT NOW!! While there are no excuses, no doubts. Because as of right now, I feel Shane would put it to Mayweather. He may not be QUITE as fast as Mayweather but he may be pretty close, he's stronger, smarter, just as mobile, and is not afraid to take the fight to him. So before I get myself all worked up to see Mayweather fight Manny, I want to get my juices flowing for a epic battle between the warrior and the road runner.
As for Manny, let's not automatically put him past Cotto just yet either. He's had a great run and done some things against De La Hoya and Patton, respectively, that nobody expected him to do. But Cotto is a different guy. He won't stand there and be target practice for Pacquiao. Cotto can box AND punch. He will get out of the way of some of Pacquiao's shots and let's not forget, Cotto can also take a punch as well (if Margarito hadn't laced his paws with bricks, Cotto wins that fight hands down). So, first, even before we put Mayweather and Pacquiao in the same ring for this huge event, do not look past November. Pacquiao will have some back-breaking work to do.
As for Manny, let's not automatically put him past Cotto just yet either. He's had a great run and done some things against De La Hoya and Patton, respectively, that nobody expected him to do. But Cotto is a different guy. He won't stand there and be target practice for Pacquiao. Cotto can box AND punch. He will get out of the way of some of Pacquiao's shots and let's not forget, Cotto can also take a punch as well (if Margarito hadn't laced his paws with bricks, Cotto wins that fight hands down). So, first, even before we put Mayweather and Pacquiao in the same ring for this huge event, do not look past November. Pacquiao will have some back-breaking work to do.
Monday, September 21, 2009
Mayweather is still #1
Yes, Mayweather is #1...and unless/until somebody beats him he will remain in the top spot. That includes Pacquiao. Manny took the spot, though well earned, but by default. Last year, Mayweather left the spot vacant voluntarily. His return to the ring with a convincing win against a very worthy opponent, Juan Manuel Marquez (the no 1 figher in Mexico) assures him of his throne. What fascinates me is that people still find a way to not give Mayweather his credit. In the post fight news conference (and thereafter), people will make the excuse of the size difference, being that Mayweather was the bigger man, and other factors to discredit Mayweather's performance on Saturday night. Yall better stop and show Mayweather his proper due. He is undefeated, has beaten some quality opponents, and has not missed a beat even after 21 months off. Now, there are some opponents still out there who I would love Mayweather to fight but he remains the king of the hill until proven otherwise.
I see that Shane Mosley took it upon himself to call out Mayweather after the right in the ring and at the press conference. In fact, at the press conference, the entire Golden Boy promotion team got in on the act to try to sway Mayweather. Although Mayweather indicated he found that a bit disrespectful let's keep some things in mind. One, Mosley does not have the reputation to blatantly disrespect anybody or stealing anyone's shine. Two, Mosley is 37 years old (or thereabouts) so he has to get Mayweather in the ring as soon as possible if it is going to happen at all. With that, he has to pull out all the stops NOW before it's too late. Mosley cannot afford to wait too long and step in the ring with a quicker, younger opponent. It would be in Mosley and Golden Boy's best interest to even try to get Mayweather to sign something BEFORE the Cotto/Pacquioa fight, although many of us fight fans know that will most likely not happen. Mayweather is smart and has too many people in his ear and knows that a fight with Pacquiao is the big money fight. And that's assuming Pacquiao gets past Cotto. Don't you guys look past Cotto either. So Mosley & Golden Boy have to do everything they can to try to get Mayweather as soon as possible. And three, fighters of the past always pulled out all the stops to get the opponent they wanted, even if that meant taking the moment from them in a fight to do so. Ali was a big orchestrator of that as you guys well know. So what Mosley did to call out Mayweather Saturday night is nothing new at all. And can somebody tell Oscar De La Hoya to get over his short end of the stick on May 5th 2007. Ever since, he has backed ever opponent Mayweather has faced. He even had the nerve to make comments at the weigh in Friday evening saying "he's all bark but no bite." WHAT R U TALKING ABOUT?? In case you were in a blackout that night in 2007, you are part of his unbeaten record sir. Sorry to inform you.
Mayweather is still #1
I see that Shane Mosley took it upon himself to call out Mayweather after the right in the ring and at the press conference. In fact, at the press conference, the entire Golden Boy promotion team got in on the act to try to sway Mayweather. Although Mayweather indicated he found that a bit disrespectful let's keep some things in mind. One, Mosley does not have the reputation to blatantly disrespect anybody or stealing anyone's shine. Two, Mosley is 37 years old (or thereabouts) so he has to get Mayweather in the ring as soon as possible if it is going to happen at all. With that, he has to pull out all the stops NOW before it's too late. Mosley cannot afford to wait too long and step in the ring with a quicker, younger opponent. It would be in Mosley and Golden Boy's best interest to even try to get Mayweather to sign something BEFORE the Cotto/Pacquioa fight, although many of us fight fans know that will most likely not happen. Mayweather is smart and has too many people in his ear and knows that a fight with Pacquiao is the big money fight. And that's assuming Pacquiao gets past Cotto. Don't you guys look past Cotto either. So Mosley & Golden Boy have to do everything they can to try to get Mayweather as soon as possible. And three, fighters of the past always pulled out all the stops to get the opponent they wanted, even if that meant taking the moment from them in a fight to do so. Ali was a big orchestrator of that as you guys well know. So what Mosley did to call out Mayweather Saturday night is nothing new at all. And can somebody tell Oscar De La Hoya to get over his short end of the stick on May 5th 2007. Ever since, he has backed ever opponent Mayweather has faced. He even had the nerve to make comments at the weigh in Friday evening saying "he's all bark but no bite." WHAT R U TALKING ABOUT?? In case you were in a blackout that night in 2007, you are part of his unbeaten record sir. Sorry to inform you.
Mayweather is still #1
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
I Look To You
Who doesn't know Whitney Houston's story? Who doesn't know what this woman has gone through in her life and career, especially the past 10 years. Well, if you haven't, you certainly did if you catched her interview on Oprah the last 2 days. I certainly was not lost on what she went through and found myself very dissapointed in her, as was the rest of her fans and support. If I ever made a joke or said anything sideways about her drug use, or marriage to Bobby Brown, I realize now it was all in the dissapointment of what I felt about what she was doing to herself. At the height and peek or her career, things seemed to fall down very fast.
What didn't Whitney attest to in the interview. She basically covered everything. And whatever we thought we knew, she certainly confirmed for us. Let me tell you about trials though, Whitney's testimony is a culmination of what we all go through in some aspect or another. The key is getting through it and coming out on the other side. And she has done just that and more. She looks great, she seems to be doing so much better, and of course she has the greatest support system and fans in the world. No matter what jokes we may have said, or things we expressed that seemed to put her down, i'm sure I speak for a whole lot of people when I say how proud we are that she has made it through. I don't have to tell you what got her through it all now, do I?
Is Bobby a bad guy? Certainly not. Those who know me knows definitely that Bobby and the New Edition crew are my boys 100 grand. I will always be fair though and not let my bias form uneven opinions of anybody. But people will always continue to label him with the stigma he's been known for for over 2 decades. So the Whitney Houston interview will probably not help his reputation with the people that have their minds set already. However, Bobby has always been Bobby. He's gone through things just like Whitney and the rest of us. He did the drugs just like she did. Now, maybe Bobby Brown has no business doing anything to enhance his already crazy behavior because that's when things will get dangerous for somebody like him. I am all for the staying together of any couple, especially married couples. But I guess Whitney could take but only so much and she had to do what she had to do in the end. I still do hope there was something, anything they could have done to repair their situation. Once someone gets spit and cheated on (numerous times) though, i'm sure that would be hard for anybody to come back on. To Whitney's credit, she certainly did try. With all of this though, Bobby seems to be doing much better himself and will hopefully get and keep his act together. He's currently touring with Heads of State (featuring him, Ralph Tresvant and Johnny Gill), was recenly part of the New Edition tribute to the Jackson 5 on the 2009 BET awards, and will hopefully be part of the New Edition tour when that comes back around again. I pray for him just as much as I pray for Whitney Houston and their beatiful daughter Bobbi Kristina (yes guys, she is lovely, but I am not R. Kelly so do not worry).
So, no matter what we may say, do or think, we cannot judge. As i've said before, we will only be judged by Him. I know for sure though, He is smiling down on his angel Whitney for pulling through and trusting in Him once again. That's the testament of a true spirit who didn't "know her own strength." So true isn't it, we normally do not know our own strength until we are tested, down and out, backs against the wall. So thank you Whitney, for the inspiration, courage, and perseverance you have displayed.
The title of her album is apply named "I look To You". We all look to someone. I know who I look to. And He is here with us always!! Believe in Him and all will come to past.
What didn't Whitney attest to in the interview. She basically covered everything. And whatever we thought we knew, she certainly confirmed for us. Let me tell you about trials though, Whitney's testimony is a culmination of what we all go through in some aspect or another. The key is getting through it and coming out on the other side. And she has done just that and more. She looks great, she seems to be doing so much better, and of course she has the greatest support system and fans in the world. No matter what jokes we may have said, or things we expressed that seemed to put her down, i'm sure I speak for a whole lot of people when I say how proud we are that she has made it through. I don't have to tell you what got her through it all now, do I?
Is Bobby a bad guy? Certainly not. Those who know me knows definitely that Bobby and the New Edition crew are my boys 100 grand. I will always be fair though and not let my bias form uneven opinions of anybody. But people will always continue to label him with the stigma he's been known for for over 2 decades. So the Whitney Houston interview will probably not help his reputation with the people that have their minds set already. However, Bobby has always been Bobby. He's gone through things just like Whitney and the rest of us. He did the drugs just like she did. Now, maybe Bobby Brown has no business doing anything to enhance his already crazy behavior because that's when things will get dangerous for somebody like him. I am all for the staying together of any couple, especially married couples. But I guess Whitney could take but only so much and she had to do what she had to do in the end. I still do hope there was something, anything they could have done to repair their situation. Once someone gets spit and cheated on (numerous times) though, i'm sure that would be hard for anybody to come back on. To Whitney's credit, she certainly did try. With all of this though, Bobby seems to be doing much better himself and will hopefully get and keep his act together. He's currently touring with Heads of State (featuring him, Ralph Tresvant and Johnny Gill), was recenly part of the New Edition tribute to the Jackson 5 on the 2009 BET awards, and will hopefully be part of the New Edition tour when that comes back around again. I pray for him just as much as I pray for Whitney Houston and their beatiful daughter Bobbi Kristina (yes guys, she is lovely, but I am not R. Kelly so do not worry).
So, no matter what we may say, do or think, we cannot judge. As i've said before, we will only be judged by Him. I know for sure though, He is smiling down on his angel Whitney for pulling through and trusting in Him once again. That's the testament of a true spirit who didn't "know her own strength." So true isn't it, we normally do not know our own strength until we are tested, down and out, backs against the wall. So thank you Whitney, for the inspiration, courage, and perseverance you have displayed.
The title of her album is apply named "I look To You". We all look to someone. I know who I look to. And He is here with us always!! Believe in Him and all will come to past.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Where are we going
Kanye West has been in the forefront of media and fan attention for the past 2 days. Rightfully so? Of course not. Because what he did in essence is take away a moment from an innocent young artist aspiring to capture her dreams. Also, the moment that Janet Jackson emotionally tributed her late big brother should have been what we are all speaking of in the aftermath.
If we did not have enough to deal with, Serena Williams also showed her a** (not the one on her back). The heat of battle and the competition of sport can bring out the fires in any of us who love the competition. But, there is a time, a place, and appropriateness for everything we do. Now, for Serena to be upset about a call, lash out, say some things and let it go and play on are one thing. But to threaten to shove a racket up somebody's behind is another. Once you take it to that level, the consequences are immeasurable. And for those of you who think the dark skin color still has nothing to do with it have another thing coming also. All of the profanity and disguisting actions that were displayed by Serena leaves her in a situation where she'll have to face some questions. She was slapped with a $10,000 fine but that's like us going to the grocery store to buy milk. I normally would give her, or any other athlete, the benefit of the doubt in this situation. Serena, though, took this one too far. If she needed her voice to be heard to express her displeasure in a call, so be it. What Serena did was take a tirade off the court. Threats are not even tolerated in the real world anymore, let alone a tennis match. I have to admit, I have not yet been able to see the tirade on video for myself, but am utterly dissapointed in Serena Williams for taking a game that she loves further than it had to go. There are a number of things Serena could have done in response to an erroneous call. We see it all the time from athletes. But, the golden rule is, do not ever threaten a person to bring harm or danger to them in any way. Especially not a line judge who would not stand up to you if you paid her.
I pray for Serena Williams and the upcoming days and months ahead. She certainly is deservant of the accolades and praises she has received over the past decade (and some change). It would be extremely unfortunate if an incident like this were to hinder her career or image in any way. We all make mistakes, and are all entitled to 2nd and even 3rd chances. We will all be judged by Him and only Him when this is all said and done. But to Kanye, Serena, and the rest of our brothers and sisters who take matters into their own hands, and egos in some cases, realize that 'they' are watching, no matter what year we're in, no matter what time it is. We have come too far to allow arrogance, egos, emotions, or any other sort of detriment ruin what people before us have fought so hard for. The ones who were lynched, raped, murdered, hosed down, shot at, spit on, etc, etc. We have to realize that this is about them just as much as we think it's about us. The generation before us was conscious and strong enough to put up with what they did for the greater good of the generation that would come after them. And in their honor, if nothing else, we have to be smarter and wiser and even more conscious to pave the way for the generation that will follow us. Because right now, where we stand, they have not much to look forward to. We are leaving them scraps that will not carry them through tomorrow. We need to pick up these pieces, and let God back into our lives with whatever we do. We will never be perfect, but we can always strive to be the best.
If we did not have enough to deal with, Serena Williams also showed her a** (not the one on her back). The heat of battle and the competition of sport can bring out the fires in any of us who love the competition. But, there is a time, a place, and appropriateness for everything we do. Now, for Serena to be upset about a call, lash out, say some things and let it go and play on are one thing. But to threaten to shove a racket up somebody's behind is another. Once you take it to that level, the consequences are immeasurable. And for those of you who think the dark skin color still has nothing to do with it have another thing coming also. All of the profanity and disguisting actions that were displayed by Serena leaves her in a situation where she'll have to face some questions. She was slapped with a $10,000 fine but that's like us going to the grocery store to buy milk. I normally would give her, or any other athlete, the benefit of the doubt in this situation. Serena, though, took this one too far. If she needed her voice to be heard to express her displeasure in a call, so be it. What Serena did was take a tirade off the court. Threats are not even tolerated in the real world anymore, let alone a tennis match. I have to admit, I have not yet been able to see the tirade on video for myself, but am utterly dissapointed in Serena Williams for taking a game that she loves further than it had to go. There are a number of things Serena could have done in response to an erroneous call. We see it all the time from athletes. But, the golden rule is, do not ever threaten a person to bring harm or danger to them in any way. Especially not a line judge who would not stand up to you if you paid her.
I pray for Serena Williams and the upcoming days and months ahead. She certainly is deservant of the accolades and praises she has received over the past decade (and some change). It would be extremely unfortunate if an incident like this were to hinder her career or image in any way. We all make mistakes, and are all entitled to 2nd and even 3rd chances. We will all be judged by Him and only Him when this is all said and done. But to Kanye, Serena, and the rest of our brothers and sisters who take matters into their own hands, and egos in some cases, realize that 'they' are watching, no matter what year we're in, no matter what time it is. We have come too far to allow arrogance, egos, emotions, or any other sort of detriment ruin what people before us have fought so hard for. The ones who were lynched, raped, murdered, hosed down, shot at, spit on, etc, etc. We have to realize that this is about them just as much as we think it's about us. The generation before us was conscious and strong enough to put up with what they did for the greater good of the generation that would come after them. And in their honor, if nothing else, we have to be smarter and wiser and even more conscious to pave the way for the generation that will follow us. Because right now, where we stand, they have not much to look forward to. We are leaving them scraps that will not carry them through tomorrow. We need to pick up these pieces, and let God back into our lives with whatever we do. We will never be perfect, but we can always strive to be the best.
Monday, September 14, 2009
Get back to Michael
If only Kanye West knew that his place in music history is about as minute as Manute Bol's was to basketball, maybe he wouldn't think so highly of himself. Maybe he wouldn't proclaim himself as a king. Maybe he wouldn't have taken away a special moment from a young lady who HUMBLY won her first MTV award last night and only wanted to enjoy her moment. For Kanye to jump on stage and take the mic out of a young lady's hands is nothing short of bitch ass. And for him to do it right after Michael Jackson's tribute, which Janet did a fine job of, is disrespecting THE REAL KING. I felt so bad for Taylor Swift but what Kanye did not realize in his self indulgence is that his gimick only backfired and got everybody in Swift's corner. Not to mention, the person he was vying for, Beyonce, was just as mortified as the young lady who's moment was stolen from her. So when it came time for Beyonce to do the right thing and, with all the class she has had in her entire career, she turned her moment over to Taylor Swift so she can continue hers.
I did not know Taylor Swift before last night but NOBODY, absolutely nobody, deserves what she received last night. Fortunately, she did not allow that to ruin her night as she stepped back on stage and handled HER MOMENT with the class and dignity that Kanye attempted to take away. Only a bitch girl such as Kanye would grab a microphone out of a young lady's hands and proceed to jack her of a happy honor. I would love to see him do anything similar to that to someone like, say, hmm......50 Cent, somebody that might have actually put Kanye to the canvas. Take the mic out of one of their hands and look at your watch when you wake up out of your sleep.
And what is up with Lil' Mama. Doesn't she have an etiquette class to attend, or some 12th grade class that she needs to make up?? I won't even go into the unexpected, unpleasant surprise she put onto Jay-Z and Alicia Keys. She looks like she could use some girly features to help her with her masculinity. Wow, I wonder how Jay-Z reacted to that AND the Kanye situation.
Most of these artists today act like they invented music and without them we wouldn't have anything. If Kanye exited music today, it would go on and wouldn't miss a beat. Lil' Mama is so irrelevant I don't even know how to comment on what she did. But she was the top trending topic on twitter so I guess the game now is about gimicks and beef to up your status. But if this was all in the spirit of Michael Jackson, they are not honoring that man AT ALL. That's not what he was about and not what him or any other old school artist had to do to gain any sort of status. Their MUSIC always spoke for itself. So after all this, will MTV now have to have top of the line security at their events to prevent the classless artists they are honoring from continuing to kick themselves in the buttochs.
I did not know Taylor Swift before last night but NOBODY, absolutely nobody, deserves what she received last night. Fortunately, she did not allow that to ruin her night as she stepped back on stage and handled HER MOMENT with the class and dignity that Kanye attempted to take away. Only a bitch girl such as Kanye would grab a microphone out of a young lady's hands and proceed to jack her of a happy honor. I would love to see him do anything similar to that to someone like, say, hmm......50 Cent, somebody that might have actually put Kanye to the canvas. Take the mic out of one of their hands and look at your watch when you wake up out of your sleep.
And what is up with Lil' Mama. Doesn't she have an etiquette class to attend, or some 12th grade class that she needs to make up?? I won't even go into the unexpected, unpleasant surprise she put onto Jay-Z and Alicia Keys. She looks like she could use some girly features to help her with her masculinity. Wow, I wonder how Jay-Z reacted to that AND the Kanye situation.
Most of these artists today act like they invented music and without them we wouldn't have anything. If Kanye exited music today, it would go on and wouldn't miss a beat. Lil' Mama is so irrelevant I don't even know how to comment on what she did. But she was the top trending topic on twitter so I guess the game now is about gimicks and beef to up your status. But if this was all in the spirit of Michael Jackson, they are not honoring that man AT ALL. That's not what he was about and not what him or any other old school artist had to do to gain any sort of status. Their MUSIC always spoke for itself. So after all this, will MTV now have to have top of the line security at their events to prevent the classless artists they are honoring from continuing to kick themselves in the buttochs.
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
The Time Is Now!
No more judging
No more anger
No more worrying
No more frustration
No more yelling
No more probing
No more toughness
No more pride
No more thinking
No more arguing
No more selfishness
No more inconsideration
No more doing things on my own
No more being absent from important people around me
No more letting the Devil win!!
With this I change rest assured,
Cuz God is telling me no more!!
No more anger
No more worrying
No more frustration
No more yelling
No more probing
No more toughness
No more pride
No more thinking
No more arguing
No more selfishness
No more inconsideration
No more doing things on my own
No more being absent from important people around me
No more letting the Devil win!!
With this I change rest assured,
Cuz God is telling me no more!!
Monday, August 10, 2009
Top 10 movies
These are my top 10 favorite movies of all-time. After the 1st listing, all the rest are not in any particular order. I could not really rank the rest b/c they're like your kids, it's hard to pick a favorite. Here they go:
1. Coming to America- This will always be my all-time favorite movie. This is the first Rated R movie me and my sister was allowed to watch. It was so good, when we got to the end, we rewound it and watched it all over again. Prince Hakeem, Semi, King Jafe Jofer, Lisa McDowell, Darryl, Soul Glo, the barber shop crew, etc etc. This movie got really got me onto Eddie Murphy and displayed his extreme comedic and acting talents, solitifying his place as my all-time favorite comedian/actor (that's another list for another time).
3. I'm Gonna Git You Sucka- Like Coming To America, this movie was among my early welcomes into Rated R movies. I still crack up when I see this movie. Before In Living Colour, Keenan Ivory Wayans blessed us with this cult classic comedy which only a mind like his could offer. They don't speak much about this movie now but in terms of comedic performances, this should be an all-timer.
8.Ace Ventura- Jim Carrey bursted out after In Living Colour with this one. I used to imitate Ace all the time in school and considered him to be my long lost uncle for a while (I know that's dorky but whatever). They did a sequel to this movie but the sequel was not nearly as good as the 1st (plus, it was sort of ignorant and could possibly offend african-americans that see it as a stereotype).
4. Malcolm X- For those of 'us' who understood what this movie was about, this should be on all of our top 10 lists. Spike Lee has a way of entertaining us and educating us at the same time. No matter the length of this movie, it's enjoyable and intriguing from beginning to end. And Denzel's depiction of Malcolm should have won him an Oscar long before Training Day. I understand the academy would not have given him one for his portrayal of someone who they were scared of anyway, so we'll give them a pass on that one. I still see Denzel saying, "we didn't land on Plymouth rock, Plymouth Rock landed on us." Damnit Denzel, it sure did. LOL.
2. The Last Dragon- Up until I saw Coming To America, this was my favorite all-time movie growing up. Bruce Leroy made every young, black kid want to learn the martial arts. We would all kid around in the playground and 'shadow fight' to try to imitate what Leroy gave us. And, of course, who could deny "Sho Nuff" (God rest his soul). Every young boy watching that movie had to have a crush on Laura Charles (and if you didn't, check your.....you know). The movie, the music, it was all good with me, and still is. They are supposed to be doing a remake soon, but I doubt it will live up to anything the original did, at least for me (but I'm pretty sure i'm not alone). "Am I the meanest, am I the prettiest, am I the baddest mo' fo' down around this town...I can't hear you."
10.Anchorman- Ha ha ha, i'm laughing just thinking of this movie making my top 10, but it has. This is a recent addition to the list but I could not deny Will Ferrell. The comedy is more simple than anything but I can't get enough. This is one I recite the lines to at work (with my crazy co-worker Mike) all the time. It is one of those movies that may not be for everybody but for those who dig it really, really like it. Stay classy San Diego!!
6. The Temptations- If you're a Tempts fan (or I should say, if you're 'colored') and don't like this movie go shoot yourselves now. I can spit this movie verbatim. Most of us may have known at least most of the Temptations story but this movie depicted it in a way that you feel like you didn't know the half. As triumphant as the Temptations story is, it is a sad one as well. So much can happen to a music group and it is so hard to keep a group together (egos, drugs, money, etc). But the tragic ending of the original members' lives go far beyond the group. God bless Otis Williams for his life and keeping the tradition alive (as well as Dennis Edwards with his own version of the Temptations). Now, no matter how much Otis and Dennis, respectively, continue to carry on the Temptations name, there will never be a group like the originals (and the 2nd & 3rd tiers). My mom continues to support the new Otis Temptations, but I can't do it. It will never come close, no matter what they do now. I will stick with the memories of the golden oldies.
9. Forrest Gump- Yes, "stupid is as stupid does", but Tom Hanks showed his genius at work. A lot of people don't realize that Hanks came into the business as a comedian, but has since well diversified his acting talents. I can still watch this movie over and over again. It is probably one of the most imitated movies of all time, to boot. The sadness of it, the joy of it, it could even be an inspiration if you looked at it that way. I will always love Jenny, Leiutenant Dan, Mama, and, of course, Bubba.
5. The Exorcist- The best scary movie of ALL TIME. None of today's movies comes close, and none after it can beat it. My parents told me that when this one came out, people were literally running out of the movie theaters, crying, screaming. They had never seen anything like it. It set a trend for movies to come. Now, it does take a while to get to the plot, the meat of the movie. But, just be patient, it will come, trust me. Don't be a punk though, turn out the lights. When that spirit enters her body, it's on!! There have been many movies on 'possession' after the Exorcist but, again, nothing can beat the original to me.
1. Coming to America- This will always be my all-time favorite movie. This is the first Rated R movie me and my sister was allowed to watch. It was so good, when we got to the end, we rewound it and watched it all over again. Prince Hakeem, Semi, King Jafe Jofer, Lisa McDowell, Darryl, Soul Glo, the barber shop crew, etc etc. This movie got really got me onto Eddie Murphy and displayed his extreme comedic and acting talents, solitifying his place as my all-time favorite comedian/actor (that's another list for another time).
3. I'm Gonna Git You Sucka- Like Coming To America, this movie was among my early welcomes into Rated R movies. I still crack up when I see this movie. Before In Living Colour, Keenan Ivory Wayans blessed us with this cult classic comedy which only a mind like his could offer. They don't speak much about this movie now but in terms of comedic performances, this should be an all-timer.
8.Ace Ventura- Jim Carrey bursted out after In Living Colour with this one. I used to imitate Ace all the time in school and considered him to be my long lost uncle for a while (I know that's dorky but whatever). They did a sequel to this movie but the sequel was not nearly as good as the 1st (plus, it was sort of ignorant and could possibly offend african-americans that see it as a stereotype).
4. Malcolm X- For those of 'us' who understood what this movie was about, this should be on all of our top 10 lists. Spike Lee has a way of entertaining us and educating us at the same time. No matter the length of this movie, it's enjoyable and intriguing from beginning to end. And Denzel's depiction of Malcolm should have won him an Oscar long before Training Day. I understand the academy would not have given him one for his portrayal of someone who they were scared of anyway, so we'll give them a pass on that one. I still see Denzel saying, "we didn't land on Plymouth rock, Plymouth Rock landed on us." Damnit Denzel, it sure did. LOL.
2. The Last Dragon- Up until I saw Coming To America, this was my favorite all-time movie growing up. Bruce Leroy made every young, black kid want to learn the martial arts. We would all kid around in the playground and 'shadow fight' to try to imitate what Leroy gave us. And, of course, who could deny "Sho Nuff" (God rest his soul). Every young boy watching that movie had to have a crush on Laura Charles (and if you didn't, check your.....you know). The movie, the music, it was all good with me, and still is. They are supposed to be doing a remake soon, but I doubt it will live up to anything the original did, at least for me (but I'm pretty sure i'm not alone). "Am I the meanest, am I the prettiest, am I the baddest mo' fo' down around this town...I can't hear you."
10.Anchorman- Ha ha ha, i'm laughing just thinking of this movie making my top 10, but it has. This is a recent addition to the list but I could not deny Will Ferrell. The comedy is more simple than anything but I can't get enough. This is one I recite the lines to at work (with my crazy co-worker Mike) all the time. It is one of those movies that may not be for everybody but for those who dig it really, really like it. Stay classy San Diego!!
6. The Temptations- If you're a Tempts fan (or I should say, if you're 'colored') and don't like this movie go shoot yourselves now. I can spit this movie verbatim. Most of us may have known at least most of the Temptations story but this movie depicted it in a way that you feel like you didn't know the half. As triumphant as the Temptations story is, it is a sad one as well. So much can happen to a music group and it is so hard to keep a group together (egos, drugs, money, etc). But the tragic ending of the original members' lives go far beyond the group. God bless Otis Williams for his life and keeping the tradition alive (as well as Dennis Edwards with his own version of the Temptations). Now, no matter how much Otis and Dennis, respectively, continue to carry on the Temptations name, there will never be a group like the originals (and the 2nd & 3rd tiers). My mom continues to support the new Otis Temptations, but I can't do it. It will never come close, no matter what they do now. I will stick with the memories of the golden oldies.
9. Forrest Gump- Yes, "stupid is as stupid does", but Tom Hanks showed his genius at work. A lot of people don't realize that Hanks came into the business as a comedian, but has since well diversified his acting talents. I can still watch this movie over and over again. It is probably one of the most imitated movies of all time, to boot. The sadness of it, the joy of it, it could even be an inspiration if you looked at it that way. I will always love Jenny, Leiutenant Dan, Mama, and, of course, Bubba.
5. The Exorcist- The best scary movie of ALL TIME. None of today's movies comes close, and none after it can beat it. My parents told me that when this one came out, people were literally running out of the movie theaters, crying, screaming. They had never seen anything like it. It set a trend for movies to come. Now, it does take a while to get to the plot, the meat of the movie. But, just be patient, it will come, trust me. Don't be a punk though, turn out the lights. When that spirit enters her body, it's on!! There have been many movies on 'possession' after the Exorcist but, again, nothing can beat the original to me.
7. Harlem Nights- This had to make the cut. To be able to get the ORIGINAL KINGS OF COMEDY together before they left us, Richard Pryor, Eddie Murphy, and Redd Foxx, was classic in itself. (screw what you heard about the 2000 version, these are the ORIGINALS and that is the end of that argument, period). This was a mixture of a ganster movie and, of course, the comedic talents of the legends put together. Also, the likes of the late Ricky Harris, Dela Reese (who was hilarious also- "oh, so now you want to shoot me in my pinky toe"), Jasmine Guy, Charlie Murphy (yes, pay attention, Charlie Murphy was in a couple of Eddie's earlier movies), the list goes on. My favorite part in the movie came from my man Arsenio Hall though. I felll out at his part just a couple of days ago like I had never seen it before. He only has a guest appearance in the movie but it's not how much you get, it's what you do with it. And I felt Arsenio certainly left his mark on this one.
*Now, notice there are numbers next to each selection. After drafting the list and looking it over, I realized that I actually could rank each movie. Unfortunately, I cannot copy and paste the selections, for some reason, to allocate them in order according to their ranking. So bare with the selections and their numbers.*
Big Bad Yankees!
Yes to all you New Yorkers who support the best team in the majors, the New York Yankees. We just ended a huge weekend against the Red Sox. This 4 game sweep indicates that this may be the year we go on to do big things. The Yankees started this cycle of signing players of big status to huge contracts and since 2000 we do not have that championship to show for it. Of course, we have continue to make the playoffs (with the exception of a couple of years) and that is good enough for most teams in sports period, but the Yankees put so much on themselves and build a roster of teams to which anything less than a World Series win is a dissapointing year.
As unfortunate as it is, it's how the Steinbrenner clan has built this organization. And especially this year, with the big free agent signings in the off-season, the Yankees are primed to go all the way. Now, I am not getting too happy about this 4-game sweep of the Sox, which make sit 7 straight wins for the Yankes, but it was a big series to put them up even further in the division. Plus, it sends a message to the Red Sox themselves, who have all but owned us the past couple of seasons. It is good for our psyche as well as letting the Red Sox know that this year we are here and they will have to contend with us. Anything the Yanks can build on the Red Sox is big money. So, as much as we can enjoy this weekend and the way the Yanks have been playing so far this summer, let's not get overjoyed, but continue to ride this train out. Let's hope I will be blogging in October over the Yankees in the World Series.
By the way, who the hell let all these Red Sox fans into Yankee Stadium. Their fans sound almost as loud as ours. Get them the hell out of here!!
As unfortunate as it is, it's how the Steinbrenner clan has built this organization. And especially this year, with the big free agent signings in the off-season, the Yankees are primed to go all the way. Now, I am not getting too happy about this 4-game sweep of the Sox, which make sit 7 straight wins for the Yankes, but it was a big series to put them up even further in the division. Plus, it sends a message to the Red Sox themselves, who have all but owned us the past couple of seasons. It is good for our psyche as well as letting the Red Sox know that this year we are here and they will have to contend with us. Anything the Yanks can build on the Red Sox is big money. So, as much as we can enjoy this weekend and the way the Yanks have been playing so far this summer, let's not get overjoyed, but continue to ride this train out. Let's hope I will be blogging in October over the Yankees in the World Series.
By the way, who the hell let all these Red Sox fans into Yankee Stadium. Their fans sound almost as loud as ours. Get them the hell out of here!!
Saturday, August 8, 2009
To The Bride & Groom
What a lovely day it was yesterday. Mr. and Mrs. Maxwell Walker are now one. What better way to celebrate the union of two beautiful people than they did yesterday. It was wonderful. The ceremony, the reception, the celebration, couldn't have asked for anything more. So many people take the vows of marriage to be unsacred, as many people now quickly look for the divorce papers as opposed to sticking to what they have vowed to do in the eyes of the Lord. Not to be judgmental in the least, but it seems that many take the easy way out when it comes to marriage and opposed to standing and fighting, which is what marriage was meant for. Even if it is nessary to create space from each other from time-to-time, that is probably natural. But, come back to each other and let the space progress you, not further divide you. Pray about everything, hang on to nothing. Whatever we hang on to will only create distress within ourselves and those around us. God is in the house so we don't have to handle things on our own. And he will certainly be there now for my good friends.
I've known Max for almost 6 years now. He's been like a big brother to me. We have a lot in common. He certainly has a good head on his shoulders, which I wouldn't say is common for a lot of people these days. He is a true friend, has always done things the right way, and certainly is deservant of God's blessings, in this case Mrs. Monica Walker. I've known Monica for 2 years now. Of course, our first meeting was at a New Edition concert (yall better recognize, both N.E. fans so you know they're going to work out). She, like Max, is a wonderful person.
If you saw these 2 together, you would see how much in love they are. Their interaction is so natural and cohesive that there is no way an ordinary person could not see the love these two share. This love has spilled over to their 1 1/2 year old son, Brock. He is such a joy, just like his parents, silly, fun loving, and will go on to do great things like his parents.
May God bless this union and keep them in his grace and his guidance FOREVER. I will hope to always be a part of their lives and will try my absolute best to be here for whatever they need. So here is....TO THE BRIDE & GROOM.....CHEERS!! (my drink does not contain alcohol though- be quiet Max!!)
I've known Max for almost 6 years now. He's been like a big brother to me. We have a lot in common. He certainly has a good head on his shoulders, which I wouldn't say is common for a lot of people these days. He is a true friend, has always done things the right way, and certainly is deservant of God's blessings, in this case Mrs. Monica Walker. I've known Monica for 2 years now. Of course, our first meeting was at a New Edition concert (yall better recognize, both N.E. fans so you know they're going to work out). She, like Max, is a wonderful person.
If you saw these 2 together, you would see how much in love they are. Their interaction is so natural and cohesive that there is no way an ordinary person could not see the love these two share. This love has spilled over to their 1 1/2 year old son, Brock. He is such a joy, just like his parents, silly, fun loving, and will go on to do great things like his parents.
May God bless this union and keep them in his grace and his guidance FOREVER. I will hope to always be a part of their lives and will try my absolute best to be here for whatever they need. So here is....TO THE BRIDE & GROOM.....CHEERS!! (my drink does not contain alcohol though- be quiet Max!!)
Friday, August 7, 2009
It's The God In Me
"YOU ARE MORE THAN A CONQUEROR THROUGH HIM WHO LOVES YOU!!" and "..."YOU CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS YOU!!" (-@ask4me)
Is it hard to believe sometimes? Does it seem like things will never get better? Sure, you can get caught up in thinking this way, but that is (what I believe) part of the test. God will give things to believers but in order to see who truly believes in Him, he has to take them on a journey. I like to refer to the journey as 'boot camp.' It is there where you have to work, train, sweat, cry, and run your emotions high. That is where He can see if you're still standing for Him. Also, if you're still praising him through tough times, that's when you're a true believer. Don't be fooled all the time by what you see, because the devil uses vulnerable people to deceive you and alter your perception. Get through all of that stuff the devil displays and continue to run right to the end, with Jesus in mind.
For me, a common thing I always say is "God is good, God is good", and just keep repeating that until I feel better even if things are looking dim. Scream for Him, clap for Him, raise your hands towards Him, just as you would at any music concert or any movie that we go crazy over. Do those same things for Him. Sometimes, that is all he asks for. Don't LOOK for a reward, it will come when you least expect it. Your prayers will be answered, your praises will be heard, your cries will be seen, and your worries will be understood. As I type this blog, I feel pain, I feel worry, and must keep this in mind for my own personal tribulations right at this moment. Continue to improve and better yourself. Just like any parent, our heavenly father is there for us no matter what. Keep Him in your hearts. Amen!!
This blog was inspired by and dedicated to twitter user @ask4me. God puts different people in your path, sometimes unexpected people from unexpected places. Thank you again bro. (follow him if you're not already).
Is it hard to believe sometimes? Does it seem like things will never get better? Sure, you can get caught up in thinking this way, but that is (what I believe) part of the test. God will give things to believers but in order to see who truly believes in Him, he has to take them on a journey. I like to refer to the journey as 'boot camp.' It is there where you have to work, train, sweat, cry, and run your emotions high. That is where He can see if you're still standing for Him. Also, if you're still praising him through tough times, that's when you're a true believer. Don't be fooled all the time by what you see, because the devil uses vulnerable people to deceive you and alter your perception. Get through all of that stuff the devil displays and continue to run right to the end, with Jesus in mind.
For me, a common thing I always say is "God is good, God is good", and just keep repeating that until I feel better even if things are looking dim. Scream for Him, clap for Him, raise your hands towards Him, just as you would at any music concert or any movie that we go crazy over. Do those same things for Him. Sometimes, that is all he asks for. Don't LOOK for a reward, it will come when you least expect it. Your prayers will be answered, your praises will be heard, your cries will be seen, and your worries will be understood. As I type this blog, I feel pain, I feel worry, and must keep this in mind for my own personal tribulations right at this moment. Continue to improve and better yourself. Just like any parent, our heavenly father is there for us no matter what. Keep Him in your hearts. Amen!!
This blog was inspired by and dedicated to twitter user @ask4me. God puts different people in your path, sometimes unexpected people from unexpected places. Thank you again bro. (follow him if you're not already).
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
We're Only Human
I've had so much time this year to do so much thinking and reflecting due to my own personal issues. When you lose things or people in your lives, it causes you to do that. Especially if your heart was into what you lost. We're all going to face it, whether we lose people in passing or whether we lose them in life. The inevitability of this fact does not take away the hurt, though. It can only try to help us prepare for it when it comes. And the only preparation we can exercise is through our Lord and savior, Jesus Christ, who through Him can make all things possible, and can ease all pains.
If you do happen to lose someone and they may find other means of friendship/love/etc, do not fret. For if it is in their hearts, and if it is meant, they certainly will find their way back to you. It is not for us to have total control over everything, for we are not equipped or capable of handling things such as He handles them. He is a controlling Father who does not need us meddling in his affairs, even if it is referring to our own lives. So, let the person go as they are. And it may not always be letting them go, but simply giving them space, letting them figure things out, letting the situation grow. It will hurt, it will sting, but it's sometimes necessary for the situation to mature. Situations cannot always prosper with you and them always in the same space, no matter what the capacity is. The person will eventually find that their other means of companionship is not what they want and that you are still in their hearts. A situation that is true will face adversity, and the adversity only strengthens the bond between you and the other person.
Again, it is hard and extremely trying, but prayer and the word gets you through. You need to concentrate on taking things day-by-day, hour-by-hour, minute-by-minute. Don't look too far and try not to look back (not too much). Naturally, we all tend to hold on to good memories, but in order to move forward, all memories need to stay memories. When we try to re-enact, we lose the good memories we had and potentially squander new ones.
So to anybody who feels like someone close to them has strayed away, wait and see, they will find you again. And it will be just like old times. Just be sure that when the situation does come back, you're not the same person, but even BETTER, and stronger. So, when you guys go through adversity again, you will already have gone through the test before to know how to handle it again when it arises. These things are the epitime of what life is about.
God is good, God is able,
For through him, we are enabled.
If you do happen to lose someone and they may find other means of friendship/love/etc, do not fret. For if it is in their hearts, and if it is meant, they certainly will find their way back to you. It is not for us to have total control over everything, for we are not equipped or capable of handling things such as He handles them. He is a controlling Father who does not need us meddling in his affairs, even if it is referring to our own lives. So, let the person go as they are. And it may not always be letting them go, but simply giving them space, letting them figure things out, letting the situation grow. It will hurt, it will sting, but it's sometimes necessary for the situation to mature. Situations cannot always prosper with you and them always in the same space, no matter what the capacity is. The person will eventually find that their other means of companionship is not what they want and that you are still in their hearts. A situation that is true will face adversity, and the adversity only strengthens the bond between you and the other person.
Again, it is hard and extremely trying, but prayer and the word gets you through. You need to concentrate on taking things day-by-day, hour-by-hour, minute-by-minute. Don't look too far and try not to look back (not too much). Naturally, we all tend to hold on to good memories, but in order to move forward, all memories need to stay memories. When we try to re-enact, we lose the good memories we had and potentially squander new ones.
So to anybody who feels like someone close to them has strayed away, wait and see, they will find you again. And it will be just like old times. Just be sure that when the situation does come back, you're not the same person, but even BETTER, and stronger. So, when you guys go through adversity again, you will already have gone through the test before to know how to handle it again when it arises. These things are the epitime of what life is about.
God is good, God is able,
For through him, we are enabled.
Monday, August 3, 2009
Day 26 by default!
So, we have been fortunate to be able to experience music groups such as The Temps, The Tops, The Stylistics, The O'Jays, The Supremes, The Miracles (from back in the day), New Edition, Jodeci, Guy, Dru Hill, 112, & Jagged Edge, to name a few. As we finish out the decade and get deeper into the new millenium, who do we have to look forward to?
Umm..i'm thinking...i'm thinking...oh, there is this group out now called Day 26. Well, they're OK I guess. I won't lie, I did watch Making the Band 4, and it is quite entertaining. The fellas seem like good people. But, what actually turned me off occured on the show itself. During last season's finale, while Dannity Kane was going through more of their drama on the set (we won't get into them, not worth the time, MAYBE in another blog at a future date, TBD). The fellas from Day 26 took the stage to perform a few songs off their album. How was the performance? I'm glad you asked. To put it mildly....the performances SUCKED!! No harmony, no range, no singing ability. They looked like some guys that were picked off the street and asked to come together to form a group (oh wait, that's actually what happened).
Now, I am not knocking the guys hustles, and certainly am all for Day 26 doing their thing. As I say that, though, the "brainwashed" success of Day 26 would have to be attributed to the MTV show, and Diddy's promotion of the group (which, by the way, is all for him, don't think for a second Day 26 is actually for the members of the actual group). Diddy has done a good job with doing what he normally does, and getting Day 26 into the mainstream. And marketing himself in the process, as always. Let's not get it twisted though, once Diddy is done with these guys that will be a wrap. Someone will go into real estate, someone else into production, someone else will just go back home like all this Day 26 stuff never happened. Either way, if you view this group of quality, formidable, all-time, you are surely mistaken. This is a temporary gig so you all better enjoy Day 26 while you can. Because this train is not headed to Paris!!
Umm..i'm thinking...i'm thinking...oh, there is this group out now called Day 26. Well, they're OK I guess. I won't lie, I did watch Making the Band 4, and it is quite entertaining. The fellas seem like good people. But, what actually turned me off occured on the show itself. During last season's finale, while Dannity Kane was going through more of their drama on the set (we won't get into them, not worth the time, MAYBE in another blog at a future date, TBD). The fellas from Day 26 took the stage to perform a few songs off their album. How was the performance? I'm glad you asked. To put it mildly....the performances SUCKED!! No harmony, no range, no singing ability. They looked like some guys that were picked off the street and asked to come together to form a group (oh wait, that's actually what happened).
Now, I am not knocking the guys hustles, and certainly am all for Day 26 doing their thing. As I say that, though, the "brainwashed" success of Day 26 would have to be attributed to the MTV show, and Diddy's promotion of the group (which, by the way, is all for him, don't think for a second Day 26 is actually for the members of the actual group). Diddy has done a good job with doing what he normally does, and getting Day 26 into the mainstream. And marketing himself in the process, as always. Let's not get it twisted though, once Diddy is done with these guys that will be a wrap. Someone will go into real estate, someone else into production, someone else will just go back home like all this Day 26 stuff never happened. Either way, if you view this group of quality, formidable, all-time, you are surely mistaken. This is a temporary gig so you all better enjoy Day 26 while you can. Because this train is not headed to Paris!!
The Innocence of Michael
This is my first-time, so you can say i'm "losing my virginity" to internet blogging. Sometimes, there's so much I want to say about certain things or just life in general and twitter only allows 140 characters. Not a lot when you like to express yourself extensively. So, here it goes. I feel it was only fitting to dedictae my first blog to the man I grew up on, the myth, the legend, the greatest of all time...Mr. Michael Joseph Jackson.
So much has been made of this man by so many media and press over the many years that Michael held the crown as the King of Pop. And even before that, when he was the biggest child star to ever walk the earth. The question is not really of what was wrong, the question is who can understand Michael and his mindset as he became an adult. So many of us like to judge and put people down before we try to know the person. So, who was Michael?
If you ask me Michael was someone who was extremely untrustworthy, afraid to open up, relunctant to let people into his world. You couldn't have just simply walked into Michael's life and been apart of his world. There were so many things he had to endure to let just anyone know him. That's where his love for children came into play. See, it wasn't that Michael was inappropriate or had anything sexual to do with those kids. Because I honestly believe to this day that he had NOT done anything of the sorts. What it was with him was a sense of living the childhood he never had through them. And the innocence they displayed that made Michael feel much more comfortable than adults could ever have made him. He once told Martin Bershir (who is not even worth mentioning in this blog but I will just to make my point) that adults will dissapoint you, adults will let you down. Michael felt that children are too innocent, too pure to do what adults are capable of. He saw kids, and the world, different than any of us can imagine. He admired nature, animals, things that we take for granted that are of the spiritual world that Michael endowed in his heart. He was able to imagine things we couldn't see, feel things we couldn't feel. And for that, he was labeled strange, weird, unusual ("Wacko Jacko"). Also, not to mention, all of the many, many things he did for people and children all around the world for so long. He was a movement in himself.
Is it simply an issue of strange? No, people will always view others as strange when they don't understand them. We all have an aspect about ourselves, in one way or another, that others may not understand. For the most part, we would keep it to ourselves. Michael did not have that luxury though. Since 5 years old he was in the spotlight. So anything that Michael did or felt was open for the world to see. So when he wanted to dubb himself "Peter Pan", it wasn't something he could simply close in on a diary. The eyes of the world through media, television, radio and cameras were always there to capture the moments that we deem private.
We all go through life. We all can say that we have, at least, a sense of relunctancy or fear of opening up to our fellow adults. Because they will let you down, they will dissapoint. And that in itself could make anybody shut down to what may be normal in the eyes of society. There are so many times (past and present) where I wish I didn't have to deal with adults, OR that I wished some were different than they are. When you have a kind-hearted person, people with either take advantage or view it as strange in some way. A lot cannot accept the good in people and will always turn it around to bad, whether that means spreading the evilness of their ways into your world or by simply by, somehow, making you feel that the kindness in your heart is not worthy of anything.
With that, my view of Michael is, in fact, his purity, his strength (which he had to have been to endure all that he did for over 3 decades). Now in his passing many feel the need to mourn him and honor him. And I am not mad at that, because the man surely deserves it. But there are a lot of us fans that were always there for him in support, no matter what he was facing. Those of us who understood the innocence of Michael Jackson.
So much has been made of this man by so many media and press over the many years that Michael held the crown as the King of Pop. And even before that, when he was the biggest child star to ever walk the earth. The question is not really of what was wrong, the question is who can understand Michael and his mindset as he became an adult. So many of us like to judge and put people down before we try to know the person. So, who was Michael?
If you ask me Michael was someone who was extremely untrustworthy, afraid to open up, relunctant to let people into his world. You couldn't have just simply walked into Michael's life and been apart of his world. There were so many things he had to endure to let just anyone know him. That's where his love for children came into play. See, it wasn't that Michael was inappropriate or had anything sexual to do with those kids. Because I honestly believe to this day that he had NOT done anything of the sorts. What it was with him was a sense of living the childhood he never had through them. And the innocence they displayed that made Michael feel much more comfortable than adults could ever have made him. He once told Martin Bershir (who is not even worth mentioning in this blog but I will just to make my point) that adults will dissapoint you, adults will let you down. Michael felt that children are too innocent, too pure to do what adults are capable of. He saw kids, and the world, different than any of us can imagine. He admired nature, animals, things that we take for granted that are of the spiritual world that Michael endowed in his heart. He was able to imagine things we couldn't see, feel things we couldn't feel. And for that, he was labeled strange, weird, unusual ("Wacko Jacko"). Also, not to mention, all of the many, many things he did for people and children all around the world for so long. He was a movement in himself.
Is it simply an issue of strange? No, people will always view others as strange when they don't understand them. We all have an aspect about ourselves, in one way or another, that others may not understand. For the most part, we would keep it to ourselves. Michael did not have that luxury though. Since 5 years old he was in the spotlight. So anything that Michael did or felt was open for the world to see. So when he wanted to dubb himself "Peter Pan", it wasn't something he could simply close in on a diary. The eyes of the world through media, television, radio and cameras were always there to capture the moments that we deem private.
We all go through life. We all can say that we have, at least, a sense of relunctancy or fear of opening up to our fellow adults. Because they will let you down, they will dissapoint. And that in itself could make anybody shut down to what may be normal in the eyes of society. There are so many times (past and present) where I wish I didn't have to deal with adults, OR that I wished some were different than they are. When you have a kind-hearted person, people with either take advantage or view it as strange in some way. A lot cannot accept the good in people and will always turn it around to bad, whether that means spreading the evilness of their ways into your world or by simply by, somehow, making you feel that the kindness in your heart is not worthy of anything.
With that, my view of Michael is, in fact, his purity, his strength (which he had to have been to endure all that he did for over 3 decades). Now in his passing many feel the need to mourn him and honor him. And I am not mad at that, because the man surely deserves it. But there are a lot of us fans that were always there for him in support, no matter what he was facing. Those of us who understood the innocence of Michael Jackson.
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